Facilitating difficult conversations is hard. And, what’s making it even harder is that it can be difficult to know which communications channel is most appropriate, for the situation-at-hand. The options seem endless; chat, text, email, phone, video, face-to-face… Using the wrong channel, at the wrong time, in the wrong way… is, well, not a good […]
The Hybrid Mediator: Choreographing conversations across communications channels
11 Ways to Commit to Restorative Justice Practices
When relationships don’t matter, we are more inclined to do bad things. There has been a lot of media in my neck of the woods this fall, around broken relationships, and doing bad things. I think there is no time like this time, to focus more on our relationships to each other, as a measure […]
Is your relationship on "clock time" or "event time"?
Are you always checking the time? Do you jump to conclusion based on first impressions? Do you tend to panic when you find yourself in a difficult situation? It could be you’re working on “clock time”. There is another way. Clock time vs Event time Clock time is about efficiency. It is about productivity, based […]
Use Participant Engagement Tools to help build consensus
A week ago, I was hanging out in Halifax, as a participant in the week-long International Association of Facilitator’s annual North America conference. I was there to connect in-person with some colleagues I’ll be doing some work with, as well as to learn. And learn I did. I self-refer as a mediator first, and facilitator […]
Puente Theatre: Community Innovation
It’s from the edges of our life that some of our greatest opportunities for learning and growth come. I can safely say theatrical experience is at the edge of my life. So, when I met with the Lina de Guevara this week, for a conversation, I knew I was going to discover some new things. […]